In addition to regular hours in the hospital, chaplains take turns being on-call or on-duty during nights and weekends. At some hospitals, chaplains remain onsite while on-duty. At my hospital, we go about our normal routine at home, but keep our pager with us at all times and respond as needed by driving to the hospital. Some nights/weekends are rather quiet, but then sometimes, they are not.
A few weekends ago, I was on call. And that weekend was a “not.”
I tried to participate in Saturday activities with my family, but received several calls that interrupted plans. To be sure, I consider responding to a call to be an honor. To represent hope and healing in difficult situations is my calling and what my heart longs to do. But, I would be lying if I said it wasn’t sometimes difficult to leave what I’m in the midst of doing with family or friends. However…I did respond…and (eventually!) with a glad servant heart.
But then, there came a call around 10pm that same night just minutes after I’d climbed into bed. Jumping into my car with a glad heart suddenly became more challenging.
And, finally, the next night…the call at 2am. I grabbed some clothes, brushed my teeth, combed my hair…and off into the dark of the night I drove to the hospital. As I drove, I began to pray. “God…you’re really, really going to have to help me tonight. I want to help this family…but I’m TIRED! And my spirit is weary! I don’t feel like I have anything left to give. Maybe I’m not cut out to be a chaplain!? Maybe I should just quit!!!”
The next morning, as I wallowed in my weariness, I received a call from a chaplain peer that began to encourage me. Through his words, God began to show me truths about being steadfast. I thought about how many times/things I’d quit in my life. Some I should have, some I shouldn’t have. Some too soon, some too late. But, above all, God wanted me to think about what it means to be steadfast.
When I stay steadfast…
I fulfill my purpose. I have no doubt that my calling is to be a chaplain. This is what I want to do and what I feel God has purposed me to do. When I think about that…it seems ridiculous that I would ever consider quitting!
When I stay steadfast…
I have the opportunity to impact the life of another person. Even when I’m weary, I can make a difference in any crisis. A family member is consoled, a patient holds a little tighter to hope, a staff member feels appreciated.
When I stay steadfast…
I continue to grow personally. I think we always believe we have to LEAVE to grow. But, sometimes, I think more growth happens when we STAY.
When we stay…we learn to deal with difficult situations
When we stay…we learn to deal with difficult people
When we stay…we discover more about ourselves
When we stay…we become a rich resource to others
I think all these principles apply not only to my professional life…I think they also apply to my spiritual life.
A very well-known verse of scripture is found in Psalm 51, the 10th verse. The first half of the verse is what we most often focus on: “Create in me a clean heart, Oh God.” But recently, it’s the second half of that verse that stands out to me: “And renew a steadfast spirit within me.”
The psalmist reminds us through his prayer that our spirit must remain active; firmly fixed; constant; devoted; faithful. And when our spirit is steadfast, the benefits are not unlike the benefits I considered by keeping on with my work.
- I will fulfill my purpose
- I will have the opportunity to impact others
- I will grow personally
It’s not always easy to keep on keeping on in our work.
It’s not always easy to keep on keeping on in our spirit.
But we are not without a Helper for either. With God, we are able to remain steadfast. And only He knows what’s in store for us when we do.
Featured photo: “Hotel of God.” Hospital in downtown Paris, March 2016.